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Wednesday 8 October 2008

ROMANCE AND CELLPHONES


Gravitation cannot be held responsible for people falling in love.
-- Albert Einstein

These days romance is dependent upon cellphones. Notes of love are exchanged through text messaging; love starts and ends via cellphones. For instance, a guy proposes a girl calling up..the LOVE between them blooms, the couple reaches the pinnacle but the flowers of love are dried up and the fragrance of love cannot be smelt after sometime because the couple has now had a break up..interestingly via cellphones..
So the cellphones have become boon for some - who are still strong in their relationship..bane for same - who have had a breakup..SO AS IT IS SAID-- AN IDEA CAN CHANGE YOUR LIFE!!! for ur good or worse..
On top of that the cellphone companies provide packages of free calling and free messaging..So that you are connected!! LOVE CONNECTS..but here via cellphones!!Interesting concept huh? Saves your time and money..as people dedicate love cards, romantic songs all through cellphones.
I am not saying that cellphones should be banned..just saying ..discretion is necessary..and when we talk about TRUE LOVE ..it doesn't need cellphones or internet! 
ONE glance of that particular person may remain with you forever and that is true love..
True love doesn't mean union of two people..
It means you give your heart without asking for the other person's love.

Monday 6 October 2008

CHASING MISS PERFECT?

They say..
NOBODY IS PERFECT!
it is also said..
PRACTICE MAKES A MAN PERFECT!
Now I ask this question, what should one believe? the first quote or second?
Nobody has seen or achieved the Utopian land or "The Republic" which Plato imagined and wrote about. So when there is no PERFECT LAND , similarly there is nothing like perfect man or perfect woman.
As it is said, "one does not love a perfect person but loves an imperfect person perfectly." Everyone is chasing for Miss Perfect or Mr Perfect, consciously or unconsciously. The definitions change from person to person, gender to gender. In the 21st century India, things are undergoing a change. Now there are no gender specific roles for men or women. Women propose men, they drive and men take a backseat. In married lives, men are changing nappies, cooking food and women are working in a 24*7 changing shift.
Now is it that the Perfect Man and Perfect Woman lie only in books and movies?
The answer is that the one perfect for Mr. Y is not perfect for Mr. X. So you may be wanting a girl who respects your parents and cooks scrumptous food for you. The other will say..Miss Perfect for me is the one who will earn money and take care of the house too.
She should be intelligent, humorous and how can i forget ..beautiful! and yeah the male ego should not get hurt! She should be practical and should not take things seriously..not the too emotional and sensitive kinds!
The NEW WOMAN is hip, cool, educated, self - dependant, uncompromising when it comes to her career.
So guys be ready to get the feel of this new woman!

Saturday 30 August 2008

Saturday 23 August 2008

THIS WORLD....

This world is an INN

People come and go

who stays here for long,

pays the HEAVIEST BILL.


This world is a RENTED HOUSE

the tenants come and go.


HE MAKES US REALIZE

THAT NOW its time TO GO.



The world is a bouquet of flowers

with different fragrances and hues

which are also not permanent as ur life , dear YOU

THIS WORLD IS TRANSIENT

remember this and never forget, dear YOU.

Thursday 21 August 2008

BEAUTY CREAMS FOR MEN

I WAS CHALLENGED BY ONE OF MY FRIENDS..HE WANTED TO SEE WHETHER I CAN WRITE ON THIS TOPIC OR  NOT..SO HERE I AM



When this concept of beauty creams for men came up...it was something unusual..but once I read an interview by Shehnaz Hussain who was the first one to launch this product for men. She said she only started up the fairness cream for men because many men wrote to her that when she is launching products for beauty care for women ..why not men?????????
And then men's fairness cream came out in the market..and the number of sales shoooted up....really true..men started using it and still they are...from college going to adults..and what is wrong in it? 
When women have the right to look good and feel good..then why not men? The film actors, models use it and we have the answer from the them...its their job to look good and FAIR!!!
and I say the commoners also have the right to look good or to say have a fair colour..If the female gender is applying hundreds of face packs, fairness creams, sunscreen lotions to protect their skin and look fair and good.. I say why not men? They also want to look good. Some say that men using fairness creams...it sounds funny..Some say they are obsessed with their looks. Some say they want to  impress the fairer sex..
The point is, it is not funny..because many use fairness creams because sometimes they get the feeling I wish I was fair..and this feeling comes because of the bias based on the colour of skin.So why will they not use fairness creams then?...they do and they will..and the product sales are still high..
So men using fairness creams..not a bad thing..you have the right to look the way u want.. but do not be ashamed of your skin colour..beacuse the colour is not so important.
Remember "beauty lies within."

Friday 13 June 2008

THE WIKIPEDIA TAG

THE WIKIPEDIA TAG
I am happy tagging and this one's uberkewl..
so check it out guys n gals
do it now..


Here are the rules
So what we have to do is go to Wikipedia and search for ur birthday and month (not year) and then choose:


a) 3 events that happened that same day throughout history


b) 2 significant birthdays


c) 1 significant death


d) 1 significant holiday or observances (if any)


e) then tag 5 bloggers.


so my b'day falls on 30 january..
3 EVENTS THAT HAPPENED THAT SAME DAY THROUGHOUT HISTORY
1. 1649- King Charles I of England beheaded [kya baat hai]
2.1948 - Indian pacifist and leader Mohandas Karamchand Gandhi is assassinated by Nathuram Godse, a Hindu extremist. [martyr's day dude....i knew this one!]
3.2003 - Belgium legally recognizes same-sex marriage. [kya hogaya hai..california n masachusets bhi legal kar chuke..kaun samjhaye]
2 significant b'days-----
1.2005 - Prince Hashem bin Al Abdullah II, of Jordan [latest..must b handsome]
2.1974 - Jemima Khan, British socialite [u must b knowin ...imran khanz ex-wife]
1 SIGNIFICANT DEATH
2007 - Sidney Sheldon, American author, playwright, and screenwriter [awwww..GOD BLESS]


1 SIGNIFICANT HOLIDAY OR OBSERVANCE...IF ANY-----




5 BLOGGERS..
well il say its a tag which is intrstng n gives u some knowledge..
il tag -




ur all invited...hehe who reads it just chk it out...gt some info ..wat happens on ur b'day!!
njoy n happy blogging.

Tuesday 11 March 2008

THE WORLD OF EXPERIENCE

We take birth in this world which seems to be beautiful but when born then only we cry n sulking in our mother's lap very soon realize that this world is not a happy one!
I wanted to become a good human being, a good friend , a good confidante and wanted to earn many 'good' positions for myself..but I found myself aloof in this world which I call the world of experience! The opposite is happening with me all my virtues are turning vices.
I am scared I don't want to be punished by God and earn the SEVEN DEADLY SINS - (wrath, pride, envy, avarice, gluttony, lust, sloth.)
But this world of experience is a selfish world, everyone has become selfish, greedy and we all are running to earn the seven deadly sins..sad but true we are making a hell on heaven and the paradise earth as some may call it has become the world of sufferings and we all are becoming negative even if we try to remain positive and humane.
I don't blame anyone and its the story of everyone who reads my blog..Think over it.