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Wednesday 8 October 2008

ROMANCE AND CELLPHONES


Gravitation cannot be held responsible for people falling in love.
-- Albert Einstein

These days romance is dependent upon cellphones. Notes of love are exchanged through text messaging; love starts and ends via cellphones. For instance, a guy proposes a girl calling up..the LOVE between them blooms, the couple reaches the pinnacle but the flowers of love are dried up and the fragrance of love cannot be smelt after sometime because the couple has now had a break up..interestingly via cellphones..
So the cellphones have become boon for some - who are still strong in their relationship..bane for same - who have had a breakup..SO AS IT IS SAID-- AN IDEA CAN CHANGE YOUR LIFE!!! for ur good or worse..
On top of that the cellphone companies provide packages of free calling and free messaging..So that you are connected!! LOVE CONNECTS..but here via cellphones!!Interesting concept huh? Saves your time and money..as people dedicate love cards, romantic songs all through cellphones.
I am not saying that cellphones should be banned..just saying ..discretion is necessary..and when we talk about TRUE LOVE ..it doesn't need cellphones or internet! 
ONE glance of that particular person may remain with you forever and that is true love..
True love doesn't mean union of two people..
It means you give your heart without asking for the other person's love.

Monday 6 October 2008

CHASING MISS PERFECT?

They say..
NOBODY IS PERFECT!
it is also said..
PRACTICE MAKES A MAN PERFECT!
Now I ask this question, what should one believe? the first quote or second?
Nobody has seen or achieved the Utopian land or "The Republic" which Plato imagined and wrote about. So when there is no PERFECT LAND , similarly there is nothing like perfect man or perfect woman.
As it is said, "one does not love a perfect person but loves an imperfect person perfectly." Everyone is chasing for Miss Perfect or Mr Perfect, consciously or unconsciously. The definitions change from person to person, gender to gender. In the 21st century India, things are undergoing a change. Now there are no gender specific roles for men or women. Women propose men, they drive and men take a backseat. In married lives, men are changing nappies, cooking food and women are working in a 24*7 changing shift.
Now is it that the Perfect Man and Perfect Woman lie only in books and movies?
The answer is that the one perfect for Mr. Y is not perfect for Mr. X. So you may be wanting a girl who respects your parents and cooks scrumptous food for you. The other will say..Miss Perfect for me is the one who will earn money and take care of the house too.
She should be intelligent, humorous and how can i forget ..beautiful! and yeah the male ego should not get hurt! She should be practical and should not take things seriously..not the too emotional and sensitive kinds!
The NEW WOMAN is hip, cool, educated, self - dependant, uncompromising when it comes to her career.
So guys be ready to get the feel of this new woman!